Why Caring Less in Dating Works - For me

Because it's not about caring less, it's about having less invested. The less you have emotionally invested, the less you have to lose. The less you have emotionally invested, the more you have for yourself. Being greedy is the way to go. I think maybe I'm not mature enough to have enough to care for myself and for someone else at the same time, yet. I'm not a good juggler. I knew I shouldn't have kids. It just f*cks you up. Is it sick that while I like being in a relationship, I always find it extremely difficult? I even find some friendships difficult and have been known to cut all ties, cold turkey. Perhaps I'm just still very selfish. I don't have enough feelings to go around. So when I care less for them, I care more for me, which works for me. Therefore I'm f*cked when I actually care about someone else. Basically I can't win. Makes sense.

A couple months went to a Switchfoot concert, free tix, and someone (aka Josh, sign) had to tell me they're a Christian rockband. I thought they were singing about love, not about God. Anyway, they keep coming up on my Safetysuit station on Pandora and I'm really digging their "Your Love is a Song." Check it out.