Wow, love my man Evan Marc Katz's blog post today,
"Why Do Men Who Seem Like Promising Prospects End Up Breaking Up With Me?"
Makes sense, I mean, I haven't been the most doting, feminine, comforting, selfless woman around. I blame this on the fact I'm a twin and stole my brother's testosterone in the womb (is it ironic he is not heterosexual?!), and therefore tend to demonstrate more masculine qualities and being "feminine" does not come all that naturally to me. Not to say I'm a sports freak manly girl; I love pink, make up, dressing nice, and all that nice stuff. And in other ways I'm really typically "feminine" - like my over emotional, over analytical thought process. In the way I communicate though and deal with relationship issues, not feminine. I'm rather abrupt (so I've been told, I think it's more BLUNT?) and get angry before I get upset. I sometimes expect the other person to magically know what's on my mind and have a hard time communicating complex/deep feelings or issues. I don't have lots of close female friends and I find it a lot easier to maintain relationships (platonic) with men. I have a handful of good girlfriends and the ones I do have are awesome. I did my sorority time which was cut off after a year when I realized I can't handle the BS of girls in large quantities. Now when it comes to men, unless I wanna be a cat lady, maybe I should try to soften up. Apparently the long blonde hair, full-time job, sense of humor, love of football, make up and worked out pecs aren't enough to keep them around?? I need to be LOVING and appeal to their FEELINGS?!
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