Wait, guys can spot the "games" ??

In WMLB/WMMB, the various "games" men play are outlined- they push your buttons to draw a reaction. They want you to react emotionally because it shows you care, which gives them power and can also make them lose interest in you. Weird since men are looking for feelings in women supposedly, but I guess they don't want someone irrational who lacks control over their emotions (whoops facial expressions that give my entire mind away).

Digressing slightly, last night I was out to dinner/drinks with the exclusive, and obviously the check came and he reached for his wallet. I said, "hey I'll get the tip." He said, "okay if you want." UMM WHAT!!! Argov clearly states that a man would never thinkkkkkk of letting his DREAM GIRL pay! Yes it was only the tip, but still. I almost fell out of my chair. I'm sure it was written all over my face- WTF is going on! I am a DREAM GIRL! He ended up paying the tip anyway, I didn't have change. But still. I'll try not to overanalyze that for three days.

So anyway, he's texting me today and I'm being a little coy:
Me: if you're lucky...
The man: oh you're playing tough huh?
Me: im not playin babe i just am
The Man: two can play at that game

GAME? PLAYING? Hang on....


Sorry I had to pick up my eyes that just rolled out of my head. Earlier in the week I also said I had plans one night, and he did the exact same thing the next night although he then changed plans so they included me. CLEARLY doing exactly what I'm trying to do.

Why do we need to do this show and dance? Is this what dating is? If so, I don't know, the cat lady life is looking good.