To sum it up: He stalked my Facebook and came to multiple (false) conclusions:
1. I was hanging out with some dude this week. Not true, my friend Darren is a jackass and posted something to make it look like I had been with him- but it was also ambiguous so I left it.)
2. I was attending yesterday's Devils game with my friend who he obviously thinks I have something going on with because he has brought this guy up repeatedly in odd ways. My friend lives with his girlfriend of over a year. There is nothing going on.
3. Something else, which I now forget. But he asked me something directly relating to something he did not know and therefore stalked.
To make a long story short, he basically is like "you only text me when it's convenient for you," wah wah wah. Hello WMLB principle: I have my own life and fit you in when it is convenient for me. Perhaps this doesn't apply when it's a completely f'ed situation and it's not casual dating (even though thats the pretense we had been under??)?? Yes he's been sick, but I have texted him this week asking how he was doing and he would either not respond or respond minimally. Sorry I'm not in a verbal frenzy after the fiasco earlier in the week. So we went back and forth, and I'm basically like, I am so confused why this is even being discussed because it's not true, and even if it were, we are not "together" because you didn't want to be, you wanted space, I'm giving you space. He's like, well IDK. Then he goes on to say, "as you said it's probably best if we just don't talk at all anymore." I said, "I didn't say it because it's necessarily what I want, but fine. I am not having this conversation via text message, we can talk in person." He says, Ok good idea. We talk about when we can meet up and he drops the bomb he's also going to the Devils game. SUHH-WEEET. At that point I told my boss I needed to leave work early because there was a possibility I would run into my ex during my Devils game date and she gave me her blessing. So Josh isn't available until Sunday because of work. I tell him okay have a good weekend, assuming we won't talk until Sunday. It's not like we've talked all week anyway really. I delete him from my phone- because he will eventually text me and I will recognize the number, and I won't have his number to contact him until then.
To be continued....

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