Dating isn't fun

Recently this guy I met a couple weeks ago through friends (we made out at the bar, his "girl" of some sort started freaking out, I laughed and went home) got my number and has been texting me. He started texting me yesterday, and my girlfriend convinced me it was a good idea to say f it and go meet him for a few drinks. I never should've gone. 1. He was 45 minutes late. 2. He acted like that was not a big deal. 3. He told me he "works and drinks, tell me stories." 4. He acted like we should go somewhere and hook up. 

Ok the only reason I even was at the bar long enough for him to show up was because the Yankees were on, I was drinking a glass of wine and liquor stores were already closed. Also I didn't want to go home and admit to my rents that I got stood up. It was the most ridiculous thing I've ever experienced. One glass of wine and I was out of there...Then I went home and ate a jar of peanut butter. My love handles are rapidly expanding. Although I've come to the mature realization that the right person I want to be with will like me even if I have size 4-6 love handles instead of my toned biceps and 16% body fat that was possible when I didn't work 10+ hour days. 

Seriously made me miss J, even though he's such an ass. I might've done a drive-by on my way home. 

Got another Facebook IM from J today, although I didn't see it until after he signed off because I was furiously working. "you can just drop my sweatshirt off if you don't wanna see me." Like, wtf does that even mean? Has he made an effort to get it? Have I implied I didn't want to see him? What kind of response was he fishing for? I'm not going out of my way to drop it off. I am way too busy during the week to even deal with it. I thought about texting him then remembered I deleted his number, although I have it saved in my email. Perhaps I will later in the week, I'm in no rush. Honestly he knows where I live, he knows I'm not going anywhere, and I don't see the urgent need to get a sweatshirt back at the beginning of the summer.